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kelly_chambliss ([personal profile] kelly_chambliss) wrote2005-10-15 10:39 pm

BRAW

I'm hereby declaring October 9-15 to be Beta Reader Appreciation WEEK, so that I don't have to be late in posting.  (Of course, this change gives us a rather odd acronym, but it can't be helped.)

Anyway, my partner is my usual beta reader, and I appreciate her in many ways, not all of which need to be described in LJ.

But I would also like to express my appreciation for several fanficcers who are not my beta readers, but whose support and friendship sustain me as a writer and as a person.  They are. . .

Seema

Rocky

Alex Voy

Julie Russo

Abbey

august (from whom I haven't heard in a while, but who was one of the first people in Trek fandom to encourage me and who did me the inestimable service of offering to host my stories on her webpage, the incomparable "Archipelago of Angst."  By great good luck, that site was among the Trekfic sites I came across.  I've been aspiring to its high writing standards ever since.)

monkee (Mary Wiecek)

 

Thank you all!! 

[identity profile] alex-voy.livejournal.com 2005-10-16 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I can envy you the beta-reading partner. For most of us, writing is a solitary business which family and friends just don't understand. While they may not actively discourage it, I'm not sure whether lack of interest and discussion or uncritical praise is the most disheartening (I'm talking about all writing here, not just fanfic). That's why I value my on-line friendships with other writers so much.

[identity profile] kellychambliss.livejournal.com 2005-10-20 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
It's interesting, isn't it, just how depressing uncritical praise can be?

And the opposite can be equally unnerving. I once made the mistake of telling a straight friend of mine (who was always eager to read my nonfiction essays) about a story I'd published. When I told her about it, I didn't even think about the fact that it contained a lesbian sex scene (totally tasteful and full of redeeming social value, of course, but still.) Even if I had remembered the scene, I probably would have mentioned the story anyway, because my friend never seemed uncomfortable with my orientation. But wow. Was she offended by the story. She told me stiffly and coldly, in clipped tones and with no eye contact, that she was sorry, but she could say nothing whatever about the piece -- because she was not a fan of science fiction. Well, this last was an excuse, of course, since a) the story was only very vaguely SF, and b) one doesn't need to be a fan a particular genre in order to offer a comment about an example of it. And this woman is a literature professor; she obviously knows more than many people about the craft of writing, whatever the genre. But obviously, SF wasn't the point; she was upset by other things.

I realized then that it had been unfair of me to tell her about the story -- I was imposing on her. It was not the sort of thing she would have ever chosen to read on her own, and I unwittingly put her in a difficult position by making it virtually impossible for her *not* to read it. I learned my lesson, though -- just because someone knows me personally does not necessarily mean they are going to want to read what I write. So I don't tell people now. If they find my stuff on their own and choose to read it, it will be because they wanted to, not because I more or less made them.